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Hey, it sucks to be dumped. I know it, you know it. But I have to say that instead of crying in my pillow or feeling sorry for myself, I've used the experiences as a way to make myself such a great person, that I can get almost anyone, I want. So, the things I've learned from those who have dumped me have helped me have more and better relationships, and this information can help you too.. if you will listen .
I used to go crazy trying to figure out what to do to keep my partner happy. It seemed like no matter what I did it was the wrong thing. I was either too nice, or too cold. It just seemed I couldn't win. Finally I got so fed up with being dumped all the time I went to an expert to find out what I was doing wrong. No, it's not who you think. I didn't go ask a buddy for advice I asked an expert. Smart, huh?
I figured most of my buddies didn't know any more than I did, although I knew they'd never admit that. But an expert, who better to get into the male's mind than someone who already lived there? So I asked my male friend to give me some pointers, and I have to say the advice was pretty good.
First off, as stupid as this may sound, he told me to stop thinking of all men as the same person. He told me to think about my friends. They all had different personalities, different things they liked and didn't like. So, why in God's name, was I lumping all men in the same category?
Not all men like shoping for ladies shoes nor holding on to their partner's purse. My 'advisor' pointed out and then when I lumped all men into the same category not only was it kind of demeaning to them; it was also stupid. If I didn't actually know who my boyfriend was and what he liked how could I even know if we liked the same things?
So lesson one my friends, is to avoid stereotypes of men at all costs. Take the time to get to know any man you meet. Don't go into any relationship with preconceived expectations.
Lesson two, men and women aren't really all that different. We all just want someone who thinks we're the greatest thing on the planet. If you treat your man like that's how you think of him, most of the time he'll treat you that way too. Then you both win. You are both getting the adoration you both want from the other. Everyone is happy.
Hey, I don't mean to oversimplify things but according to my expert, we usually make things more complicated than they have to be. So if you want to be happy with the man in your life use the things I ve learned from men who have dumped me and follow my advice. It works.
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