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Thinking of dating a married man or are you currently dating one? Then you must be crazy! Get up and smell the coffee already. Okay, so you did not know at first because he neglected to tell you he was married and you didn't ask. So, now that you know he is married, you should have told him to get lost. But you did not because you think you are in love with him.
You are kidding yourself as this man will only try to hold on to you by deceiving you. He will buy you gifts and take you places you have never been before. Most of all he will try to hold on to you by telling you lies about how he is going to leave his wife for you. Don't believe him as, he will never leave his wife. Not for you or anyone else.
Getting gifts and going to those places you have never been before may sound all glamorous and everything but in reality you are seeing someone else's man and possibly wrecking their marriage. Is it really worth all the heartache you are causing?
What he wants is to have his cake and eat it, too. Do not think she doesn't know. You are probably only one of many indiscretions he has had and she will weather this one as she has all the others. He thinks he is God's gift to women and all you are doing for him is stroking his ego. You need to kick him to the curb and learn to have some respect for yourself.
Seriously, what are you really getting out of this relationship? Hiding, clandestine dinners and maybe a trinket or two, or spending time in sleazy hotels? A woman should have a boyfriend she can show off and tell people about. You can't do that when your boyfriend is a married man. He just wants to hide from his wife. Or, he wants to show her she has no control over him. If she didn't have any control, why does he feel the need to hide from her. Why not just flaunt his girlfriends right out in the open? Because he is a coward, that's why and if you did have any respect for yourself you would see that and tell him to get lost.
Frankly, he chose you because he saw the weaknesses you have and knew he could control you, not his wife. All he had to do was dangle that karat in front of your nose and you were hooked. How pathetic is that?
Maybe you are not weak at all, maybe you are just that shallow and will do anything you can to get anything you want from anyone in your life. Again, pathetic! Whatever your motivation, dating a married man is stupid, knock it off.
